Hey "Allbusiness"

[TC]

I'm curious....who are you and why are you here?

Most people who show up here have a story to share...they get to know the people here and allow the regulars here to get to know them.....but you have chosen not to do so.  Instead, you show up and start providing advice like you are God almighty...no introduction, no explanation...no nothing.

So, I'm curious...who/what are you and why are you here?

TC

[allbusiness]

I'm curious....who are you and why are you here?

Most people who show up here have a story to share...they get to know the people here and allow the regulars here to get to know them.....but you have chosen not to do so.  Instead, you show up and start providing advice like you are God almighty...no introduction, no explanation...no nothing.

So, I'm curious...who/what are you and why are you here?

TC

I'm far from "God Almighty". I am just giving advice based on my experiences.

[TC]

Please do tell...what may those experiences be?  Inquiring minds would love to know...especially since all the regulars here have shared ours.

TC

[allbusiness]

Please do tell...what may those experiences be?  Inquiring minds would love to know...especially since all the regulars here have shared ours.

TC

Cheating x, physical, emotional and financial abuse, leading to divorce.

[TC]

Please do tell...what may those experiences be?  Inquiring minds would love to know...especially since all the regulars here have shared ours.

TC

Cheating x, physical, emotional and financial abuse, leading to divorce.

I'm sorry for what you had to go through...especially the physical and emotional abuse.  No one should ever have to go through that....no one.

And I hope you can understand why some of us are curious about you.  Its not that we don't want you here, but we would like you to be part of our family....which means we all need to open up a little and get to know one another. 

There are two things that are definately true about this board....no one has all the answers and at times, all of us can use a little help.  That is why this board survives....we are all here to help and receive help.

So, all that said, let me officially welcome you to the board.  I hope you find what you are looking for here and maybe make a friend or three in the process.

TC

[H0$$]

Sounds like PUP to me.

[TC]

There are similiarities....I would agree with that.

T

[chill]

who cares who it is?  As long as they are offering help to others, and getting help too.

[m_t]

who cares who it is?  As long as they are offering help to others, and getting help too.

Apparently, quite a few people. Perhaps they like to have a feeling of "knowing" someone who's giving them input. But thanks for jumping on another opportunity to scold others.

[chill]

screw you MT.  A while back people were leary of anyone coming on here because of the past.  In fact at one time a lot of innocent people got accused.  I was one of them and still am leary of some.  But I try not to post my questions or what I think, for the possiblity of them being a "real" person.  Making assumptions and making a thread to a "new" person could be intimidating.  Making an assumption that it is a past person that has been here before and using the name that she went by, could be intimidating.
And if me saying, Who cares?  bothers you........or for me to point out what does it matter.  You my dear have issues.  You aren't "higher" then anyone else.  Superior to none.  If you are so religeous, why don't you try walking with us normal folk

[m_t]

screw you MT.  A while back people were leary of anyone coming on here because of the past.  In fact at one time a lot of innocent people got accused.  I was one of them and still am leary of some.  But I try not to post my questions or what I think, for the possiblity of them being a "real" person.  Making assumptions and making a thread to a "new" person could be intimidating.  Making an assumption that it is a past person that has been here before and using the name that she went by, could be intimidating.
And if me saying, Who cares?  bothers you........or for me to point out what does it matter.  You my dear have issues.  You aren't "higher" then anyone else.  Superior to none.  If you are so religeous, why don't you try walking with us normal folk

LOL Aren't you the one who always exhorts others for being "judgmental"? True colors, oh cold one, true colors. And no, I'm not the only one who thinks you're as much of a hypocrite as you think I am. But thanks for making it so crystal clear.

[enough is enough]

maybe Allb, is afraid to post to much personal stuff. Maybe they are just waiting to see if we are all sincere and worthy. Some people dont trust very easily.

I have been found out on this site by my ex. Had to hide for awhile and change my Alias. Its not fun.

Maybe they are my ex. trying to spy!!!!!! (I doubt that but just in case KISS MY ASS if your him.) Otherwise ignore that last comment.

Maybe in time we will learn more. No rush. Shit I'm not going anywhere.

[m_t]

That could be, eie. Except I'm pretty sure allb is a woman (from her first post) - don't think you swing that way.    Seriously - what the heck is wrong with asking someone who they are and for some back history? If they answer, they answer. If they don't, they don't. Why that should send someone into a tizzy is anyone's guess.

[Wolfy]

TC handled it perfectly, in my opinion. He wasn't accusative or anything. He asked some questions and got some answers. That's called communicating. Isn't that what most of us wanted more of from our exs when were married?

[allbusiness]

TC handled it perfectly, in my opinion. He wasn't accusative or anything. He asked some questions and got some answers. That's called communicating. Isn't that what most of us wanted more of from our exs when were married?

Only if you do not consider the following "anything", Wolfy:

Instead, you show up and start providing advice like you are God almighty...no introduction, no explanation...no nothing.

And I'm not your ex, EIE.    I am still on the fence on whether to swing that way in the future or not!