How can you ignore your kids.....

[Cam]

Happy Birthday to momma!  Twins!  How wonderful the times must have been and so many more to come ! 

Life choices that screw with your head and heart.  Some grow and realize the pain they cause others just don't care .   Doesn't matter its just infuriating at times like these '  Lots of hugs and how wonderful that they have  'you'.. 

[BamaJan]

that's really sad Jan.

I  know it hurts you to see them treated so poorly by thier father. It must be worse when he can find time for one child but not another one.

((((hugs)))) to all of you.

It is sad.  He contacted one of the twins by text yesterday and told her that he didn't text her on her birthday for two reasons... one because he was in the mountains and didn't have good cell reception (although he was with our older two children and they both contacted their sisters to wish them a happy birthday) and the other reason was because he is lazy.  She told me that she didn't even respond to the text. She is very hurt and told me she is "done".  The saddest part is that I don't think he cares. He is so far removed from parenting now. He doesn't do anything to work on his relationship with his children. They do it all.

I hope someday he realizes his mistake and at least attempts to make amends.

[BamaJan]

He's such a putz. He can't fix the past but he could work harder for the present and future. But he won't. He is too selfish. He has caused the twins to not trust men. I have no idea if either will ever have a normal relationship. He still lies to them and they know he lies. It's really sad. It just makes me work harder to be a good mom. They need a stable parent. I wish they had two.